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18 Great Money Saving Tips For Solo Travelers

What’s a huge downside of traveling solo? There’s no one to split costs with!

OK, so that sounds like a first-world problem. But it’s true: solo travel on a budget can be tricky, and could very well affect your whole itinerary (and trip length).

As someone who has been traveling solo for quite a while, I figured it’s time to dump everything I know about saving money on the road into one blog post. Hope you find something useful in here!

Executive Summary: on most trips, the three largest expenses are transport, accommodation, and food. All the other stuff is relevant, but pales in comparison to these “big 3” categories. So our priority is to minimize those expenses–before moving on to everything else.

We begin with transportation:

Tip #1: Become a Flight Booking Ninja

If you really want to stretch your travel budget, you’ve got to get better at saving money on airfare.

There are 100’s of flight booking websites out there. In my experience, few are fast and comprehensive as Google Flights. There are some killer features on this site, such as a “Date grid” for quickly finding the lowest prices for a given time period, and a “Price graph” for monitoring fares over time. I prefer this one over Skyscanner (the other two popular one).

Pro tip: you can leave the destination blank and see possible outbound routes from your destination. This is great when you’ve got time and no set plans (my favorite kind of travel!)

As a general rule, you will pay less if you book at least 3 weeks in advance of your trip. You will likely also save money by flying on weekdays (Tuesdays, Wednesday, and Saturday for US domestic flights).

If you’re willing to wake up at 5 AM (or earlier), the first few flights of the day are usually more affordable – and are less prone to delays! As a bonus, it could mean getting to your destination well before dinner, giving you plenty of time to settle in and prepare an action plan for the following day.

Also, don’t forget to check flights in/out of nearby airports. It’s easy to forget, for example, that SFO (San Francisco) is practically next to OAK (Oakland).

Finally, don’t underestimate the power of holiday season (when prices spike up considerably worldwide). I try to avoid all air travel during the Christmas holidays – all it means is more delays, super expensive tickets, and long lineups in airports. For specific date ranges to avoid in 2019, check out this handy guide from FareCompare.

Google Flights fare comparison screenshot
Google Flights is a great tool for finding the cheapest fares

Tip #2: Say “NO” To Baggage Fees

OK, so don’t literally say “no” if you’re asked to pay the fees – or you might get shown out of the airport!

What I mean is: try to avoid paying any bag fees at all. You can do this by:

  • Traveling with only carry-on luggage (just one backpack)
  • Making sure my carry-on luggage is within the size and weight limits imposed by the airline (someone has gone ahead and compiled a complete chart of these – handy!)

“Isn’t that just letting the airlines win?” you might ask.

Yes and no. On one hand, yeah, we jump through all these hoops to save on something that we probably shouldn’t be charged for in the first place. On the other hand, this is the only way now – airlines have had no choice but to deal with rising fuel costs (and competition) by jacking up the costs for everything else.

And I’ve already written at length about the benefits of traveling super light. It’s a liberating feeling, and I do my best to convince everyone I know to skip checked luggage entirely. A “budget airline” ticket isn’t so budget when you have to pay an additional 30$ in checked bag fees.

Backpacker looking at the mountains in the background
It’s a liberating feeling to travel with just one carry-on backpack

Tip #3: Use Credit Card Points To Fly For Free

When I started my round-the-world journey, I already had close to 500,000 air miles saved up – this meant that I flew for free (or only paid the taxes) on multiple long haul flights. This ended up saving me thousands.

Warning: this whole credit-point-ticket-hacking game is a rabbit hole of frequent flyer programs, “cost per point” calculations, and insane flight redemption techniques. Once you start reading the various blogs and fora on the subject, it’s easy to get lost (and waste dozens of hours figuring it all out).

Here’s how all this works (the short version):

  • Long before your trip, you sign up for new credit cards. The focus is on credit cards with a “sign up bonus” (e.g. “50,000 points”). Typically, this means that if you spend a certain amount within 3 months of opening the card, you’ll be given some quantity of card points.
  • The juiciest deals usually have a minimum spend of $3,000-5,000 and up, so people try to sign up right before they’re expecting to make major life purchases. Major business trip coming up (that you can get reimbursed for later)? Perfect. Buying a lot of furniture for your new place? Great, might as well get some points while you’re at it!
  • Once you have the points, they can be converted to air miles for your airline of choice. Generally, I recommended keeping all the points as regular credit card points until you know exactly which airline you want to redeem on.
  • First, I punch in my origin and destination into AwardHacker. This handy tool gives me all the available redemption options (with the miles required).
  • I then go to the airline’s website (e.g. British Airways) and attempt to find available flights that can be booked with miles. If I see something available, I log into my credit card account and send those points into my frequent flyer account with the airline (for example, I would convert Chase Ultimate Rewards points into British Airways Avios miles).
  • Once the points have been converted (typically in 1-2 days), I can go ahead and book the flights with miles.

And that’s just the gist of what’s going on. There’s a bunch of other stuff you need to be aware of in this game, such as point expiration policies, points:miles conversion ratios (e.g. sometimes you get 2:1, or maybe it’s 1:3), possible redemptions on partner airlines (e.g. One World, Star Alliance), and so on. If you want to get really deep into this stuff, start here: churning subreddit.

Note: from everything I’ve seen, these tactics are most useful to U.S. travelers. Other countries don’t have nearly the same selection and award bonuses when it comes to credit card programs. If you’re outside of the US, you may be better off ignoring all this and just getting a cashback card with no foreign transaction or exchange fees (more on this later).

Tip #4: Embrace the Stopover

To the uninitiated, a “stopover” is simply a layover longer than 24 hours. In other words, it gives you a chance to explore a city in-between (before flying to your final destination).

Layover: fly to Tokyo, wait 6 hours, get on connecting flight to Hong Kong
Stopover: fly to Tokyo, explore for 3 days, get on connecting flight to Hong Kong

“Free” stopovers (that is, stopovers that don’t end up costing you more than a regular layover ticket) are rare, but they do exist. Sometimes, airlines even advertise “free stopovers” as a major selling point.

Here are some Airline/destination combos that people have pulled off “free” stopovers with:

  • Stopover in Reykjavik (KEF) on IcelandAir when flying from North America to Europe
  • Amsterdam (AMS) with KLM
  • Paris (CDG) with Air France
  • Istanbul (IST) with Turkish Airlines (really underrated carrier!)
  • London (LHR) with British Airways
  • Singapore (SIN) with Singapore Airlines (a great way to see Singapore as it’s tiny and can be easily seen in 1-2 days)
  • Tokyo (HND or NRT) with ANA
  • San Francisco (SFO) or Los Angeles (LAX) on Qantas when flying between Sydney and the East Coast (e.g. Toronto or NYC)
  • … and so on.

These kinds of opportunities come and go all the time, so check to see what’s possible. Google Flights “Multi City” search is a good place to start if you need stopover ideas.

Pro tip: finding “secret” flight deals gets even deeper. Consider the following scenario, in which you’re looking at flights from Toronto to LA:

  • Option A: there’s a ticket from Toronto to Los Angeles for $300
  • Option B: there’s a ticket from Toronto to Las Vegas (with a stop in Los Angeles) for $250

As you can see, there’s something weird going on with the ticket pricing. People have figured out that you could simply buy Option B, get out in LA, and ignore the remainder of the journey (i.e. don’t get back on the plane to continue to Vegas). There’s even a website out there that helps you find these loopholes (SkipLagged). Warning: don’t do this with return tickets, because if you fail to check in for any segment… the other segments on your itinerary will be void. Also, don’t do this if you have checked bags (because your bags will make it all the way to Vegas!)

Tour bus parked at sunset outside in Iceland
Gas is expensive in Iceland: you can take a bus for your Northern Lights sightseeing expeditions

Tip #5: Take long-haul buses and save big

It’s not exactly a secret, but you really don’t have to fly everywhere.

Intercity buses exist in almost every country, and are an affordable way to cover long distances. Contrary to popular belief, they are typically not “scary” at all – plenty of families take these buses. And you’d be surprised how often you get “business class” amenities on these buses – I’m talking fully reclining seats, privacy curtains, personal TVs, lunch/dinner service (with alcohol), on-demand coffee, on-board bathrooms, and so on.

The longest bus journey I’ve been on was Mendoza to Buenos Aires (Argentina). It took 13 hours, but I got to see a whole different side of the country – and slept for at least half of it. No regrets, and I would recommend this to budget-minded travelers. (I know plenty of you have been on 24+ hour bus journeys – respect!)

Pro tip: if you’re taking a night bus, keep your valuables close to you when you doze off. If putting stuff in the overhead bins, secure them to the rail with a lock (or at least a carabiner). And try not to entrust any of your baggage to the luggage compartment under the bus – bags are notorious for getting “lost” in transit down there.

Inside a Hong Kong MTR subway carriage
The Hong Kong MTR is one of the world’s best subway systems

Tip #6: Public transport is your friend

Even if you don’t really use public transport at home, don’t be so quick to dismiss it abroad. In many places (e.g. major European and Asian cities), it’s the fastest way to get around a busy city – and the cheapest, too!

In the past, travelers would have to walk around with bus timetables and constantly ask locals for assistance with routes and stops. These days, the whole process is heavily simplified: Google Maps, for one, has public transport information for many countries – and they’re constantly adding new features.

For me, a great public transport system is an attraction in of itself. From the futuristic Tokyo Monorail to the classy and chandelier-clad stations of the Moscow Metro (and everything in between), there’s a lot of engineering and architecture to appreciate in places that have invested in efficient transport networks.

Pro tip: if you’re in a city for a few days, it may make sense to invest in a multi-day or weekly transport pass. Buy it once, and you won’t have to waste time figuring out Zone fares, transfers, and all that (especially in a language you don’t understand). You’ll be saving money and time.

Tip #7: Avoid the dreaded airport taxi

OK, so you’ve found a cheaper flight – and snagged affordable accommodation. But there’s still one major challenge remaining: getting from the destination airport to the city.

This is the point at which most travelers surrender – there’s simply no energy left after a long flight, passport control, and multiple interactions with airport staff. Nothing sounds better than to just throw your bag in the back seat of a waiting taxi and pay whatever price they’ve dreamt up for a ride downtown.

And yet I urge you to remain strong! Unless it’s the only option, resist the temptation of the airport taxi (perhaps the only method of ground transport out there that will charge you 50$ for a 10km ride).

Do your research beforehand (we always try to include alternate airport transport information in our guides). Double check with the info desk in the Arrivals hall. Ask someone who’s not busy. Do anything and everything in your power to get to town like the locals do: either via airport bus/shuttle, train, or, in the worst case scenario, via a ride-hailing service like Uber.

Pro tip: if you do have to take an airport taxi, make sure you find out the normal fare to downtown. And confirm with the driver before you get in. Also, confirm that their credit card machine is working if you don’t have any cash – these guys are notorious for claiming the reader is “failing to connect to the system” at the last second.

Interior shot of a clean and modern studio apartment
You can sometimes find great deals on Airbnb for not much more than the price of a hostel room

Tip #8: Hostels are not always the best option

These days, backpackers are so used to staying in hostels that they have developed “hostel myopia” – they simply don’t consider any other form of accommodation!

When it comes to the most sensible lodging options, it really, really depends on the destination. Some examples:

  • Need a place for a few nights in Hanoi, Vietnam? You might find a hostel bed for a few dollars each, but a decent private hotel room might only be $12/night total (with daily room cleaning and breakfast included).
  • Need to set up base in Chiang Mai, Thailand for a whole month? You could bounce between hostels, but then you’d have to deal with the hassle of having roommates and constantly worrying about your stuff getting stolen. Instead, you could literally rent an apartment for the same price (or less) as long as you pre-pay for the whole month.
  • Passing through Hong Kong? With average property prices so high, there are very few hostels to begin with (and even fewer in a convenient location for sightseeing). I’d be checking room listings on Airbnb to see what’s available on the west side of Hong Kong Island.
  • Visiting San Francisco during a big tech conference? Well… we can’t help you there.

Moral of the story: hostels are great, but they should never be the only option you consider. These days, mainstream websites like Booking.com aggregate a ton of various options – hotels, hostels, villas, apart-hotels, serviced apartments, and so on. Check all your options before you commit.

Tip #9: How to save big on Airbnb bookings

When you book something on Airbnb, there’s a human at the other end of the transaction – not a major corporation. This means there’s plenty of leeway for negotiation.

If you have a good tenant record and want a place for at least a week, you could consider emailing Airbnb hosts ahead of time to see if you can secure a stay for some kind of discount (it’s not uncommon to ask for 40% off right away).

Your message could be something like this:

Hi HOST_NAME,

I'd like to book your Airbnb listing from DATE to DATE.

I'm visiting CITY because BLAH BLAH. I am a OCCUPATION and HOBBIES. And SOMETHING PERSONAL ABOUT THEIR PROFILE.

Airbnb shows the price as $PRICE. Since I'm staying for X WEEKS I'm wondering if I can book your Airbnb for 0.6*PRICE.

Thanks,
NAME

The worst thing that can happen? They’ll say no – or simply ignore your message. No problem, because you can reach out to multiple hosts simultaneously.

Don’t worry about offending the hosts – they understand that this is a business. Airbnb prices are already marked up for tourists and visitors – this is simply a chance to save during less busy periods (e.g. “low season”).

Pro tip: this tactic works even better when you’re already staying at their place (and paying the full listed amount). You could simply message the host via WhatsApp and SMS and offer to keep renting the place at 40% off. Hosts love no-nonsense, clean, and responsible tenants – especially when the tenant offers to pay with cash 😉

Tip #10: Use sleeper trains as your hotel

This is a quick tip that applies mostly to European trips, where overnight train voyages are a popular method of transportation.

The idea is simple: intentionally book an overnight train ride (with sleeper bunks) so you save money on accommodation. As a bonus, you’ll arrive at your destination refreshed and ready to explore the city – and no days are lost to “travel time.”

This method really only works if you’re a hard sleeper, and have no trouble dozing off on moving vehicles. Otherwise, you’ll be waking up every hour (or worse, not getting much sleep at all).

Pro tip: just as on long bus voyages, it’s imperative that you keep watch over valuables. Secure any bags to the nets/railings, and keep the most expensive stuff (passport, cash, jewelry) on your person. Sleeper trains are notorious target for pickpockets and petty thieves.

Inside a typical Japanese capsule hotel pod
Inside a Japanese capsule hotel pod – a fun experience (for exactly one night)

Tip #11: Get creative with accommodation

Remember: there are no “rules” for travel. There is no performance review, and no one is watching (except maybe your Instagram #followers?)

On your trip, you are free to do anything: including spending your nights in unusual places. Allow me to illustrate with some examples:

  • As long as you don’t mind tight spaces, you could conceivably stay in capsule hotels for your entire stay in Japan. Will it be weird that everyone else there is a businessman or office worker that has missed their last train home? Only at first – then you’ll get used to it.
  • Have you heard of people playing games in those Korean internet cafes for days on end? Turns out these places often have reclining chairs, designed to keep you there – and comfortable – for as long as possible. Put on those noise canceling headphones and doze off, lulled by the excited outbursts of excited gamers and the sounds of simulated gunfire.
  • Need to save some cash in China? Well, you could spend a couple nights in a sauna. They have reclining armchairs, showers, towels, free snacks, water, and WiFi. Sometimes even separate swimming pools. Oh, and you’ll get some world-class massages, too. Nothing shady going on here – there are thousands of these establishments.
  • Willing to house-sit someone’s place while they are away? As long as you have a good reputation for watering the plants and feeding pets, you might be able to swing free accommodation. Check out websites like Trusted Housesitters for more info (females tend to have more success on these websites).
  • You’ve probably heard of Couchsurfing: a site where people offer their couch (or a spare room) to travelers for free. While this is a roll-of-the-dice that I haven’t tried yet, there are millions who have used it (and lived to tell the tale). This is a risky one for both parties.
  • Sleeping in airports has become so commonplace that there is now a site with detailed info on the best areas and airports to overnight in. Not a bad idea, especially if it’s a newer (read: cleaner) airport and you’ve got a flight to catch very early in the morning. Some airports even have designed sleeping zones, padded benches, or full-on sleep pods!

The list goes on. Whether it’s sleeping on a beach (“under the stars!”) or dozing off while hunched over a table in a 24/7 McDonalds, travelers have found all sorts of creative ways to save on accommodation. While it’s unlikely you’ll ever go to such extremes, just know that there are options.

Pro tip: if you really need last-minute accommodation and park benches are not an attractive option, try simply walking into a hotel and asking the front desk if they have rooms available. Turns out you don’t have to book online (who knew, right?) Sometimes, hotels will have discounted last-minute room deals available (this is coincidentally the entire premise of the app HotelTonight).

Bread with sunny side-up egg
Egg on toast: takes minutes to prepare, and can be made almost anywhere

Tip #12: Cooking for one: is it even worth it?

Unless you really love cooking – and have the right equipment and condiments at your accommodation – it becomes really hard to justify cooking for yourself. Nevertheless, it can be worth it in some situations.

Let’s break it down by meal: is cooking for one worth it?

  • Breakfast: depends on your habits. If you’re like me and need that big boost of energy first thing in the morning, it’s usually worth it to buy some basic ingredients at the supermarket for your whole stay. Otherwise I’d just be cranky and hunting for something – anything – to sate my hunger in the morning.
  • Lunch: rarely worth cooking for yourself. There are so many great lunch deals these days, so I find that it’s far better value to eat at local restaurants for lunch. After all, you’re traveling to experience new cultures – and what better way to immerse yourself than to try the local cuisine? Eat at a different place for lunch every day!
  • Dinner: usually worth cooking for yourself (at least on longer trips). Unless you’re a serious foodie and have a dedicated budget for great chefs and restaurants to check out, you can save a lot of money by cooking some quick meals before you hit the nightlife. As a bonus, learning to cook dinner is great preparation for a romantic night in!

Note: this section won’t even be relevant unless your room/hostel/Airbnb has a kitchen. I also tend to travel “slowly” (staying in one city for 1-2 weeks or even longer sometimes), so cooking becomes a legitimate money saver.

Top down shot of a woman in bangkok preparing street food
For serious savings, eat the local street food!

Tip #13: Dine with the office workers

If you want to find out where to eat to get the best value, just see where all the regular office types eat during their lunch break! They know the area better than anyone, and have already picked out the best cheap eats around.

This tactic works especially well in expensive neighborhoods (e.g. Ginza in Tokyo) where it seems every little snack costs an arm and a leg. Trust me: the local employees aren’t going to be overpaying for anything. See where they’re going, or just ask them where the best ramen is. Don’t tell them you want the cheapest–but ask for a place with big portions!

The general lesson here is: learn to eat local. You’ll save a lot of money by eating the local cuisine instead of constantly seeking out food that you’d get back home (you’ll probably be disappointed with the latter, anyway).

Tip #14: Book tours locally

When I hiked the Salkantay Trek* from Cusco (Peru) to Machu Picchu, I found out that some people in my group paid much more than I did (for the exact same experience). The difference? They booked online, way in advance. Whereas I booked locally, just two days before the trek started (and I paid in cash).

I’ve seen these price discrepancies again and again. It’s almost always better to book things in person at your destination–where you can assess all the options at hand, negotiate face-to-face, and get competing quotes before committing to one provider or another. It’s rarely the case that there’s just one super special tour operator (unless it’s truly exclusive, like an edge of space tour in a fighter jet or something).

Don’t be afraid to comparison shop, and use time pressure to your advantage: if the tour is leaving in a few hours and they still haven’t sold out, you may be able to swing a discounted price. Solo travelers even have an advantage here, as operators may only have the one extra seat/space available–and who else is gonna fill it if not you?

Remember: everything is negotiable. And always ask if you can get a slight discount for paying in cash.

*The Salkantay is similar to the Inca Trail, but you end up arriving to Machu Picchu from a different direction. Same destination, different route (and usually much more affordable). I paid ~$180 in 2017, others paid north of $250, and the folks who booked online? I’ve heard numbers as high as $600 (all US dollars). Keep in mind that these prices fluctuate all the time.

A word on scoring free tours. As recently as a few years ago, travelers were making deals with tour operators like so: “let me go on the trip for free, I won’t tell the others, and in return I’ll take high resolution photos with my fancy camera that you can use for your TripAdvisor pages, website, etc.” This was a legitimate tactic for a while–until it got saturated and most providers got all the photos they need. Today, this could still work if you a) offer great video (drone) footage and/or b) have a very sizeable following on your blog that the operator would get exposure on. Otherwise, it’s becoming a hard sell!

Tip #15: Exchanging money (and withdrawing cash) like a pro

Repeat after me: do not exchange your money at Travelex.

Whether it’s Travelex or another big chain of foreign currency exchange stores, more often than not you’re going to get taken for a ride on the exchange (either the rate will be horrible, or they’ll take a hefty commission, or both). These operations are all over major airports and train stations, and I recommend avoiding them altogether.

Usually, the best way to exchange money is actually through the ATM. Use your debit card at a reputable bank branch (ideally, inside the actual branch) to withdraw cash in the local currency. You’ll still be charged an ATM fee, but at least the rate will be close to the real interbank exchange rate that day. Americans have an advantage here if they have signed up for the Charles Schwab debit card (all ATM fees are refunded).

If you really must exchange money on the street, look up “currency exchange” on Google Maps and just read some reviews–if there are any good places, they will be rated 4 stars or higher (with plenty of recent reviews).

Generally speaking, I try to make very minimal use of my debit card abroad. I treat it as an “emergency use only” device. Where possible, I pay with one of my credit cards. If something goes wrong, a credit card company will reverse a suspicious charge immediately (if you used a debit card, the money will simply have left your account and thus begins a long and annoying investigate process with your bank that will require lots of paperwork and phone calls).

To sum it up, quick “finance” tips for travelers:

  • Before leaving, see if you can get a debit card that refunds ATM fees.
  • Also, sign up for a credit card with no FTF (Foreign Transaction Fees). This means that all purchases abroad will be treated just like purchases back home
  • If asked whether you want the credit card transaction to be in the local currency (e.g. Thai Baht) or your home currency (e.g. USD), always pick your home currency. This way, the exchange rate used will be the bank’s (as opposed to whatever exchange rate the local payment processor has concocted for that day).
  • Before you set off, put a travel alert on all your cards so they don’t suddenly get frozen by the bank for “suspicious activity”
  • Have some amount of cash hidden away for emergency uses at all times. I like to keep at least $200, half of that in American 20-dollar bills (very handy), and the other half in the local currency.
  • Be very careful about using your debit card at random ATMs. Even if it looks like a busy area (with cameras), you never know which ATMs have been fitted with card skimmers/readers. This stuff happens way, way more often than you realize.

Pro tip about tipping: find out what the tipping culture is like at your destination before arrival. If you’re American, for example, you may be used to tipping 15-20% for just about everything–this is considered over-the-top in most places around the world. As a general rule, 10% is a perfectly good tip in a restaurant (read the bill, as it may have already been added on as a surprise “service charge”).

Person withdrawing money from an ATM
To minimize fraud risk, only use ATMs inside major bank branches

Tip #16: Bring your student ID

Are you a student? Bring your student ID  You will be saving a lot of money through discounts on transport, entertainment, museums, food, clothing, etc. You may even be eligible for “student only” packages and tours.

Pro tip: try to register for an ISIC card before departure. This is an internationally recognized student card that is sometimes the only form of student ID a business or organization will accept.

Tip #17: Sign up for some walking tours

In almost every major city, there are people offering guided walking tours. Often, they are marketed as free (or close to free). I highly recommend taking advantage of these for the following reasons:

  • It’s a quick way to find out a lot about the city you’re exploring. Walking tour guides are knowledgeable and have done the tour many times, so they’ve already got lots of answers to common questions. Let’s face it: it’s far easier to have someone give you the entertaining, abridged version of the city’s prolific past than to read a long Wikipedia article 😉
  • These tours usually last anywhere from 2-4 hours, and will end up costing you around 10-20 USD at most (it’s how much I’ve tipped on those free tours if there’s no suggested price). This is great value for money, and is effectively “outsourcing” the afternoon’s itinerary to someone else.
  • It’s a great chance to meet other travelers–whether they’re also solo (or traveling as a group). Strike up a conversation, and you’ll be surprised at how receptive people are to meeting someone new!
  • The tour guides tend to know a lot about the city, so you can get the unfiltered local wisdom from them about what else is good to see, eat, and experience. They’ll know where the best nightlife is, and which areas are to be avoided.

Pro tip: this is something you can do without even going anywhere! Ever signed up for a walking tour of your own city? Sounds silly, but you’d be surprised at how much there is to learn about the same streets you’ve been walking on for years.

Person paragliding in Queenstown, New Zealand
Sometimes, it’s worth it to splurge on fun stuff (like paragliding in Queenstown, New Zealand!)

Tip #18: Don’t sweat the small stuff

Finally: don’t try to squeeze every last penny of savings out of the trip.

You’re on a trip, after all. Why waste hours and precious energy trying to over-optimize every last detail? If you’re lucky enough to be able to take time off to travel somewhere else (a luxury by world standards), then you can afford to spend the extra few dollars.

Don’t be the guy wearing a $300 high-tech travel backpack while haggling over a $0.50 tuk-tuk discount in Chiang Mai. Or the girl too cheap to buy a round of drinks when it’s your turn during the hostel pub crawl in Budapest.

Your trip won’t last forever. Eventually, you’ll have to return home–in most cases, back to the office and 100s of unanswered emails. Believe me when I say this: when you’re back home and going through the 9 to 5 motions again, you won’t regret paying that $200 for a spontaneous scuba dive tour that you didn’t even know existed on the island you were staying on. All that money will feel like cash well spent.

Don’t sweat the small stuff–enjoy the trip!


I hope at least one of these tips was helpful as you plan–or continue–your solo adventure. Please feel free to leave any other tips you have in the comments so that we may all benefit!

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Groups & Tours For Solo Travelers: An Overview

Should you travel as part of a group trip (Contiki Tours, Gap Adventures, etc.)?

Well, it depends. Our goal is to help you make an educated decision on the matter. In this post, we’re going to cover:

  1. The pros & cons of traveling by yourself vs. in a group tour
  2. A detailed comparison of all the popular group tour providers, including approximate costs and what kind of traveler each is best suited for. We’ve also included some reviews from Reddit for each provider.

Let’s get started!

Pros & Cons of Group Tours For Solo Travelers

Here’s a breakdown of the advantages and disadvantages of traveling as part of a group tour.

Pros of Group Tours (The Good):

  • It’s never a dull moment when you’re traveling in a group. Whatever happens, there will be a conversation going on about it. And with enough people, the chances of something unexpected happening are very high. If you’re the kind of person who finds it difficult to travel alone, a group tour is a way to get all the social benefits without the need to rally your friends back home to join you.
  • You’ll make some new friends. Group tours attract lots of solo travelers, so everyone’s starting out “by themselves”–striking up a conversation and making a new friend is pretty easy. And the more stuff you do together, the more at ease you’ll feel with one another. Not to mention that you all (independently) signed up for the exact same tour–so you probably have far more in common with a group member than with another traveler taken at random.
  • Safety in numbers: if you’re traveling in a group, everyone is looking out for one another. There’s less chance of someone attempting a mugging (unless one of you strays from the herd). This point is especially amplified at night–it helps to have a buddy or two when you’re drinking and partying in a foreign land.
  • Local wisdom can make any trip more interesting. Group tours benefit from having access to knowledgeable guides that can explain the significance of important locations, attractions, dishes, etc. You’ll save a lot of time flipping through guidebooks and translating everything back to English.
  • Ease of travel: forget planning out your accommodation, meals, and day-to-day itineraries. The tours generally have everything prepared already–it’s truly travel on easy mode!
  • Exotic destinations can become a possibility with a group tour. It’s much harder to justify a solo trip to Antarctica, for example, when there’s a possibility of splitting costs 15-20 ways via a tour group. Even if the tour is expensive, you may still come out ahead than if you attempted to pull it off by yourself. Naturally, this varies by operator and destination.
  • The possibility of sexy times. What do you think happens when you put a bunch of singles on the same trip–and fill up their day with activities that encourage social bonding? Romantic relationships and quick flings are not unheard of, especially when the nights are spent partying and dancing.
Young people hanging out at a pool party at sunset
On a group tour, you’ll be doing EVERYTHING together – which can be good or bad

Cons of Group Tours (The Bad):

  • It’s never a dull moment. If you’re looking for peace and quiet, group tours may not be the best solution. At the end of the day, these packages are about having a great time together — and this often takes precedence over immersing yourself in the local culture or attractions. Extroverted people will naturally be comfortable in a group setting when traveling, while introverts may feel a nagging claustrophobia.
  • Being the odd one out isn’t very fun. If it happens that you don’t get along with anyone else on the trip, you’re still stuck with them until it’s over. Maybe you’re very introverted, and they’re not. Or vice versa. Or maybe you don’t fit the demographic profile (this is why operators often have references or even limits as to the age of the participants).
  • Too much alcohol. Not to generalize too much about tour providers (there are a lot to choose from, all with their own approach), but many of the companies that target 18-35 year olds put a heavy emphasis on partying and going out. This leads to a lot of alcohol-fueled nights, and a lot of time spent in bars/clubs. It can be a lot of fun, but it certainly isn’t for everyone. Make sure you read reviews before you commit to a particular operator! (If possible, talk to someone who has gone on a similar trip with them).
  • Missing out on the actual destination. This may sound a bit silly, but a group tour *may* limit your interaction with the local attractions. If the focus is on doing everything “together” and bonding, then there’s naturally less time for solitary activities such as going on a photo walk, exploring a museum, or getting lost in the side streets of a foreign place.
  • Less chance of interacting with locals. It applies in almost any situation (regardless of whether you’re on a trip): when you’re in a group, strangers are less likely to strike up a conversation with you. A group acts as a social “shield”–both protecting its members and organically “repelling” anyone else. Contrast this with the typical experience of a true solo traveler–everyone’s naturally curious about someone traveling alone and many will ask questions and try to get to know you.
  • You’re stuck with the itinerary. Group tours take away a lot of the freedom that attracts people to solo trips in the first place. The start and end dates are fixed. Most of the day-to-day activities are predetermined, and are not going to change. Even the meals may be pre-booked in restaurants of the tour operator’s choosing. And if you want to spend less or more time in a particular place, it will have to happen on a future trip.
  • Being told what to do. As a naturally independent person, this is something I’ve always struggled with. I have trouble taking orders from people, especially when I’m on a vacation that I paid for. Sure, I’ll wake up at 8 AM to get on the damn boat–but I won’t like it. And the idea of having someone else determine how much “free time” I have in a given day? It’s a tough pill to swallow.
  • Cost: group tours can be very expensive. Before you commit to spending thousands on an 8 day / 7 night itinerary, check to see how much the trip would cost you if you were to book everything by yourself.
Group of people hiking up a hill
It’s no secret: most of the popular tour companies draw a younger crowd

Comparison of The Most Popular Group Tour Providers

All the companies below are reputable group tour operators–they have been doing this for decades. And while you’re unlikely to go wrong with any of them, there are some differences between how they operate, where they travel, target demographic, and general approach to travel.

In alphabetical order:

Contiki Tours logo

“Travel with no regrets”

Full name: Contiki Travel Tours
Founded
: 1962 (New Zealand)
Description: “Contiki is the travel company exclusively for 18-35 year olds. Our purpose is to connect young travellers to the time of their lives.”
Where they go: “350 trips across 6 continents” (everywhere except Antarctica)
Target demographic: 18-35 year olds
Price range: $230 – $9,800 USD
Trip length: from 3 to 55 days
Trip photos: Contiki Instagram feed

Word on the street (anonymous Reddit reviews):

“If I had to redo the choice of either going myself on a DIY trip and going through Contiki for my first Euro trip, I would 1000% do Contiki again. The people I met were amazing, and it was essentially like a road trip through Europe. It was a great gateway for someone like me who had never been to Europe and was nervous about planning everything and getting between places. I’m heading back to Europe for two weeks this fall and revisiting some of the countries that I loved. If you are a solo traveler, it is a great way to meet people.” – kb32492

I did Contiki (Europe) when I was in my early 20s and I generally had fun. It was my first time travelling and went with a few friends and had a good time. Lots of drinking and such. It was expensive, but easy to organise. The ‘extras’ tagged on were sometimes a bit so-so. Also, a lot depends on the person/drivers hosting you. My guy was incredibly annoying and seemed to use the contiki tour as his own personal pick up joint. The hotels we stayed at were reasonable, but not awesome.” – loggerheader

“Did a Contiki last year in England and Scotland, absolutely loved it. Was my first time overseas and I wanted to do it on my own as I didn’t really have any friends to go with, sounds cliched but absolutely no regrets. My tour was only ten days unfortunately, and it only left me wanting more. The trip managers are pretty cool, the coach is comfortable enough. We had a good enough mix of people: those wanting to party and those just wanting to see sights and experiences. I definitely had a good mix of both.”swanny246

“I am from California. And I have traveled 3 times with Contiki. Highly support it. Great for people in their mid 20s. Fast paced, get to see a lot. Tour guides are generally super knowledgeable. I think they do Europe the best. I liked my Europe Spain Contiki better than my Asia Contiki.”s0ysauce09

G Adventures logo

“Help make our world a little bit better, one adventure at a time”

Full name: G Adventures
Founded
: 1990 (Toronto, Canada)
Description: “G Adventures is an adventure travel pioneer offering the planet’s most awe-inspiring selection of affordable small-group tours, safaris and expeditions.”
Where they go: Over 700 different tours across 100+ countries (all continents)
Target demographic: minimum 18 years old. No upper age limit on most tours, but their 18-to-Thirtysomethings tours are limited to 18-to-39-year-olds
Price range: $240 – $16,000 USD
Trip length: from 2 to 65 days
Trip photos: G Adventures Instagram feed

Word on the street (anonymous Reddit reviews):

“I’ve done 5 trips with them in the past and have another one booked… I’ve picked tours where I felt the logistics would have been a bit more difficult to do on my own…. they generally are relatively fast paced tours, and you’ll often want a holiday at the end. Overall I’ve found the itineraries of the trips I’ve done to be structured very well – most places I would have loved more time in (as is the nature of travel) but was very happy with what I did/saw and didn’t feel like I’d missed out. There’s also been a good mix of “organised time” and “free time.” – cupp95

“I’ve travelled with them ten times on five continents. They have 3 styles of travel: 18-30something (basic, hostels, public transport), classic (standard hotels, private transport) and comfort (upgraded hotels, a/c busses, etc.) I’ve travelled on both 18-30something and classic. Age group in the former is mostly 18-25, and classic is mostly 25-40+

You usually share a room with 1 person (or more if hostel accommodation), but always same gender, and never with strangers. It’s massive fun, and you get to make a lot of new friends as part of the trip. You always have people to hang out with if you want (no force).

I wouldn’t use G in Europe because it’s easy to do on your own, except maybe for their sailing trips around the med. I used them in Australia & NZ, which maybe wasn’t necessary, but I had a great time. SEA wasn’t as amazing, so I wouldn’t recommend them there either. But their tours in all of Latin America is great, they’re epic in Central Asia, and have fantastic trips in Africa.

Finally, their trips can be really good value. Look at their website for tours on offer.” – windcape

Logo Intrepid Travel

“Responsible travel, small groups and very (very) big adventures”

Full name: Intrepid Travel
Founded
: 1989 (Melbourne, Australia)
Description: “The world’s largest small-group adventure tour company, carrying over 100,000 travellers across the globe each year”
Where they go: “more than 1,000 adventures in over 100 countries” (all continents)
Target demographic: all ages (18+). Some tours are limited to 18-29 year olds.
Price range: $515 – $18,000 USD
Trip length: from 4 to 58 days
Trip photos: Intrepid Instagram feed

Word on the street (anonymous Reddit reviews):

“I did my first Intrepid tour last year! I went to Egypt and Jordan and I did one of the all ages trips. I LOVED it. I went as a solo traveller 28 years old. For my Egypt group the range was 24-71. I’d say half of those people were mid to late 20s, the other half were older. I was one of 3 solo travelers. You spend a lot of time together socially. You travel together to and tour each location together so there’s a lot of socializing. Typically after you tour the location with your guide you get like an hour or two to walk around on your own and typically you stick with a couple of members from the group so you have a buddy to explore with. Our tour leader was also great at arranging large group dinners with the whole squad, but that was optional.”lhs0726

“I’ve traveled a lot with Intrepid and it’s usually a huge variety of age ranges. A lot of younger people who want a party atmosphere will do the trips specifically for younger people. If you want that, go for it. If not, stick with the mixed crowd.”huddle1031

“I’ve been on 2 intrepid tours and one of the guides told me the key is in the price. Intrepid has tiers, and the cheapest tier is (almost) always full of young people, where as the expensive tier is (almost) always full of older people. You will have a good time regardless though!”furiousfire

“I did a 15-day trip to India with Intrepid Travel last June and had an amazing time. There were 11 of us including the guide. I was solo, as was a few others. There was a mother/daughter from the US, a couple from New Zealand, and a couple from Australia.”kilroyishere89

Topdeck Travel Logo

“Here at Topdeck, it’s your trip, your way”

Full name: Topdeck Travel
Founded
: 1973 (United Kingdom)
Description: “We offer variety, comfort and value for money, and promise a hassle-free holiday, loaded with authentic local experiences.”
Where they go: “330 different tours in 65 countries” (all continents except South America and Antarctica)
Target demographic: “18 to 30-somethings”
Price range: $180 – $7,700 USD
Trip length: from 4 to 58 days
Trip photos: Topdeck Instagram feed

Word on the street (anonymous Reddit reviews):

“I went on a Topdeck tour many years ago to Europe. I wasn’t alone but many people were. I have mixed feelings about these organised trips. I had a great time ,made some really good connections and definitely saw A LOT! almost too much. this was my biggest beef, we were constantly on the move. we were in 9 countries in 3 weeks. I really didn’t get to fully enjoy or experience any one place because we were in and out so fast. One great advantage is that everything is planned for you, you can sit back and enjoy the ride.”travelboy

“I have done 2 tours with Topdeck before and both were brilliant. The first one was a 4 day ANZAC day tour to Gallipoli and Istanbul in Turkey, the second was a 9 day tour of Egypt. They were professional and the guides were fantastic. But the best part (from your point of view) is that it was really easy to make friends, especially because it was a pretty small group (10 -12 people). All it takes is one night at the pub and you’ll never want to forget them”lukemarlin

“I decided to do a Topdeck tour because I had 0 experience overseas and had friends who had done Topdeck trips and loved it. 

Pros:

  • It’s a fantastic balance of scheduled activities and free time
  • Got to meet a group of fantastic people
  • Everything was booked. Didn’t have to worry about finding transport and accommodation
  • Knowledgable guides who could answer any questions I had. Give good recommendations on what to do on free time
  • always had somebody to do activities with but could also just do your own thing on free days
  • a lot of meals are included (65% on estimate)
  • my group was very sociable. Always went out on a night, met new people from other tours. However there was no stigma if you decided to have an early night – definitely made friends for life

Cons:

  • not as cheap if you booked it all by yourself
  • the final couple of days I was starting to get sick of a few people. just stayed away from them; was fine-
  • if somebody gets sick, most likely you will as well 
  • having to get up at 8am for travel days is hard (just sleep on bus)
  • only a couple of days in each city. If you like a place it’s not enough time. However if you don’t like it your out of there quickly
  • you’re hanging out predominately with Aussies, kiwis and Canadians.” – Uleh11

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TL;DR: all the tour companies are great, and of course your experience will greatly depend on who you get in your group. Contiki and Topdeck seem to attract more of a “party” crowd, while G Adventures and Intrepid are a bit more toned down. Also, any tours to Europe typically involve much more partying than trips to other destinations.

If you’re looking for a smaller tour operator (that comes highly recommended by other solo travelers), check out Free and Easy Traveler.

Pro tip: if you have any questions, call the operator beforehand! Don’t be shy about asking for specific details about the typical age makeup of the tour(s) you’re considering. Also, ask if the tour generally gets more couples, more solo travelers, or an even split. Get all the details before you spend all your savings!


We hope this guide was helpful. If you feel that we’ve missed anything, please leave a comment below. Safe travels!

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12 Unconventional Solo Travel Tips (For Guys!)

There’s a lot of advice out there for women who travel solo–but not nearly as much for male travelers.

“Yeah, but isn’t travel way more dangerous for women?” 

It certainly is. Women are not only at high risk of sexual assault, but are also expected to conform to additional social norms and customs that don’t apply to men (e.g. having to cover up in Muslim countries).

Nevertheless, I see guys getting themselves into all sorts of trouble and shenanigans. After years of traveling solo myself, I figured it’s time to give some advice.

Guys: I’m not telling you what to do. Or ordering you how to behave. These are just tips that I feel are at least worthy of your consideration.

#1. Don’t be a hero

If they have you at knifepoint against the wall, don’t do anything stupid. Just give them the wallet and phone. Your life is more valuable than that, and you’ll recover. If you’re dealing with people who have nothing to lose, it’s best to act calm, make slow movements, and comply.

Of course, it’s better not to get into these situations in the first place (more on that in tip #2 below). But you should always be prepared for the worst.

Another thing: do not try to interfere in other people’s disputes. If you see a guy yelling at his girlfriend, leave it be. If there’s a disagreement at the bazaar, don’t insert yourself into it. While it’s tempting to be the hero and defuse arguments and confrontations, it’s also not your job to be the vigilante. More often than not, all parties involved will team up on you instead. Unless it’s a matter of life and death, stay out of it.

If you do get mugged, don’t delay. When the coast is clear, get out of there. If you’re not injured, head back to your hostel/hotel/etc and call your banks(s) to freeze your credit and debit cards. Ask locals for advice regarding your chances of recovering anything. If there is rule of law in the country, file a police report–even if it doesn’t help you, it may help future travelers.

I personally never travel without a backup phone (stays in the room), physical photocopies of my passport photo page, and emergency cash reserves (they stay in the room, and I keep very little cash in the wallet when I go out).

Man standing on top of an urban skyscraper
Climbing TV towers and skyscrapers is dangerous and reckless (on top of being illegal)

#2. Take risks, but don’t be reckless

Want to ride a scooter in Thailand? No problem, scooters are awesome. Just wear a helmet.

Want to go trail running through the jungle of Bali? Sure, it’s a lot of fun. Probably best to go with a friend, though.

Want to take gritty street photos in Medellín? Go for it, but tell someone where you’re going (and maybe don’t go at night). Probably best not to show off an expensive DSLR, either.

I’m stating the obvious here, but it’s just a reminder. We guys are notorious for doing crazy things and pushing ourselves physically. But there’s a fine line between recklessness and calculated risk. Know the limits of your abilities, and don’t be pressured into doing anything just because “everyone else” is.

One of the best examples from my journeys was biking down North Yungas Road (the “Death Road”) in Bolivia. If you follow directions, maintain speed, and signal before overtaking, you’ll be just fine. But try to do anything creative (e.g. racing someone, or using one hand to film yourself with a selfie stick), and there’s a very strong chance you’ll go over the edge–as many others have. You’re not invincible–be careful.

#3. Try not to fight anyone

No matter how many hours you’ve trained in martial arts, it’s almost never a good idea to get into fights. At best, you’ve asserted dominance over something minor. At worst, you’re dead.

Guys will try to start fights over the dumbest things. Maybe you looked at their sister for a second too long. Maybe you said something to insult their politicians (more on this later). Maybe you’re just a foreigner, and they want to prove that they’re “tough” in front of friends. Some even start fights out of sheer boredom.

Here are some good reasons to avoid fighting during your trip:

  • Once you start fighting, you’ve drawn the line. You’ve established that you’re willing to get hurt, and the other guy has no choice but to oblige. If you run, he can point and laugh. But once you throw the first punch, you’ve left him with no choice. He may be willing to do something extra stupid just to defend his reputation.
  • Don’t expect a fight to be clean. There are no rules in a street fight, and the other guy may have brass knuckles, a knife, or something else. You could be knocked unconscious (or worse) in a split second.
  • Never underestimate your adversary. You may be a big guy, well-trained, and in peak physical condition. But the other guy could be tougher. How much are you willing to risk to find out?
  • A fight that starts off one-on-one doesn’t have to stay that way. In many cases, you will be ganged up on. This isn’t a Van Damme movie–they’re not going to line up to take turns fighting you.
  • If the police get involved (and there’s a good chance they will), who do you think they’ll believe? The locals, or you? Don’t expect your local embassy to come to your rescue.

Finally, isn’t the purpose of your trip ultimately to enjoy life? Why risk ruining it all over something silly?

If you think there’s a chance a fight could start, don’t engage. De-escalate, and walk away. Run if you need to–you’ll live to fight another day.

Caveat: if you’ve got no other way out, then it’s a different situation entirely. When left with no choice, defend yourself. Do not hesitate. If you need a reminder of effective self defence, check out this video on street fighting by Bas Rutten. Don’t get fancy with bicycle kicks–the goal should be to end the confrontation as fast as possible (every second counts). Be an animal, so that everyone else there will think twice before engaging.

Two men sparring in a boxing ring
Want to fight? Save your energy for the boxing ring

#4. Know the local drug laws

I get it–everyone’s situation is different. Maybe you never touch any illicit substances–in which case this point may not apply. But there’s a fair to good chance that you will be offered to partake in drug use during your travels, so it helps to be in the know regarding what can happen.

Drug laws greatly vary by jurisdiction. For example, Many Westerners consider marijuana to be a relatively harmless substance, and are surprised when they find out about the penalties for merely possessing–much less importing–cannabis in a place like Singapore (spoiler: the punishments are severe). In fact, just about all drugs are taken much more seriously in Asia than they are in the West. Wherever you’re going, read up on the law before you get there.

My advice is to be on the right side of the law. If it’s illegal, don’t do it. It’s not worth ruining your entire trip (or risking your life) for a high, no matter how much your mind may be “opened” as a result. It’s one thing to risk doing it in your home country (where you understand all the possibilities)–it’s a whole other matter to roll the dice abroad, where you will have to navigate an entirely different legal system (and that’s if there is a legal system in the first place).

Pro tip: there’s a very good chance that the person selling you drugs is an undercover cop (happens all the time to Full Moon partygoers in Thailand). If you’re busted, they will ask you to pay a fine (a.k.a. a bribe). When faced with the choice of paying a steep fine or taking your chances with the legal system, my advice would be to pay the fine. At the party, it’s just you and the cop; at the police station, a whole lot more people are going to want a piece. When you’ve been convicted of a crime, there’s little that your embassy will be able to do for you.

#5. You don’t have to finish that drink

Alcohol is an important part of many cultures.

The British like to wind down over a pint at the pub. Ireland practically runs on Guinness and Jameson. Vodka gets plenty of Eastern Europeans through the week, and Chinese business deals are often decided over a bottle of rice wine. While the type of alcohol (and quantity imbibed) varies, the concept remains the same–it’s a substance that loosens everyone’s inhibitions, encourages bravado and bonding, and provides plausible deniability for the day after (“oh, I don’t remember a thing!”)

As a male traveler, you may find yourself in situations where drinking is expected. If you’re invited to a party or local wedding, you may feel strong pressure to keep up with the other guys. Just know this: you’re under no obligation to match anyone shot for shot. Decide what your limits are going to be, and stick to them. Decent people everywhere will respect your decision, even if it’s unusual in their culture.

A common example: I often get asked about drinking in Russia. Lots of guys think that they’ll have to down half a bottle of vodka during every night out in Moscow… while the reality is very different. Ironically, it’s the people in countries like Russia that will be most understanding when you declare that you “don’t drink anymore” or “need to watch your intake.” Rather than seeing you as some kind of weakling, they will assume you’ve already had a history of alcohol–and don’t wish to go back to those times.

It’s not a binary decision, either. You could simply make the choice to drink slowly, and pace your intake over the course of the night. Some common tactics are:

  • Sip slowly
  • For every shot you take, drink a glass of water afterwards
  • Dilute the liquor (e.g. with soda water)
  • Don’t mix drinks in one night (“beer before liquor, never been sicker!”)
  • Try to stick to one drink per hour

You don’t have to drink to prove your manliness. Instead, show that you’re a man by sticking to your guns. You may have to weather some lighthearted insults, but you’ll earn their respect.

People cheering with multiple glasses of beer
Drinking is a part of many social functions – just don’t overdo it!

#6. You’re an ambassador now – so act like one!

Our world isn’t one big happy Kumbaya–it’s still very much divided along racial, cultural, and national lines. Don’t expect anywhere to be nearly as diverse, multicultural, and tolerant as your home country. When it comes to jokes and stereotypes in everyday speech, don’t expect nearly the same level of political correctness or restraint.

Whether you like it or not, you’re automatically an “ambassador” of your home country when you’re abroad. You don’t have much control here–the reputation of your home country precedes you, and everything you do will be evaluated against those expectations. You have only choice: to let this fact affect your behavior or not.

On one hand, no one is going to be surprised if you live up to some “traveler” stereotype. Think you’ll be the first Australian to get drunk in Bali? Or the first American to raise his voice at a Parisian waiter? Or the only Chinese guy to leave your trash lying around? Not a chance–there have been thousands before you. (Obligatory disclaimer: I’m not saying everyone from these countries does these things. Just pointing out stereotypes as they exist.)

On the other hand, your visit to this country is an opportunity to change stereotypes–or at least get people to question their preconceived notions about an entire group of people. If you act like an ambassador would–with respect towards others, dignity, and patience–you will be part of the solution. Nothing will change overnight, but the world might just become a little bit more tolerant and open to others.

The choice is yours. I personally enjoy messing with people’s stereotypes, as it completely shatters their programming and world-view. The calm, polite traveler? They’ll never see it coming.

Pro tip: it helps to have an alibi for random people you meet on the trip. Some might not accept “solo traveler” as a sufficient reason for your visit. Many will assume one of two possibilities–business man or sex tourist (and anyone younger than 40 gets quickly bucketed into the latter). It might help to say that you’re a photographer, or visiting local friends. Just a suggestion for those 10-minute interactions (e.g. with a curious cab driver) that would go a lot smoother if they associate you with something positive.

#7. If you want to blend in, don’t wear shorts

Europeans always say that they can “spot an American” instantly–the iconic cargo shorts and white socks are a dead giveaway. Likewise, you’re immediately a gringo (until proven otherwise) in Latin America if you’re in shorts. In many cultures, men rarely wear shorts other than when playing sports.

This “rule” (if you can even call it that) is not universal. There are plenty of ways to look dapper and stylish in shorts. It’s just not typical of men to do so, unless you’re in a particularly fashion-forward place (e.g. Italy).

Stick to dark jeans, or tailored slacks, and you have a greater chance of blending in with the others. Benefits of looking like a local include: not getting ripped off on every quoted price, not being an obvious target for muggings, and so on.

There are lots of other items that could give you the tourist “look”: cargo pants, bright coloured backpacks with dangling straps, fanny packs, any kind of hiking accessories, camera backpacks (with large DSLRs in them), t-shirts with the Red Bull logo, worn out sneakers, and so on.

In the end, however, what you wear may not even matter that much–if your physical appearance (skin color, height, etc) is obviously different from that of the locals, they’re gonna know anyway. And they’ll know as soon as you say anything.

#8. BYOC (Bring Your Own Condoms)

Yes, you should bring condoms on your trip. Overly optimistic? Nah, it’s all about being prepared.

Guys waste a lot of time abroad trying to find their favorite brands, or even a size that fits them (e.g. it’s practically impossible to find large condoms in South East Asia). Just bring your own, and you’ll save yourself the headache.

Pro tip: if you’re having sex on your travels, get tested regularly. On a long trip, this means going for an STD test in a local hospital. You don’t have to get home to get a check up–there are proper, modern facilities just about everywhere these days. You could even consider getting a “full checkup” abroad (all the tests and scans), as it may be significantly cheaper than back home.

#9. Don’t bring up politics (or the Pope)

This is actually a common piece of advice that I feel is worth repeating.

Unless someone explicitly brings it up, it’s generally a good idea to avoid “sensitive” conversation topics such as religion, sex, and politics. You simply don’t know who you’re going to offend. Religion, for example, is a big part of many people’s lives–and they won’t take kindly to a foreigner dismissing it as unimportant (or criticizing certain aspects of it). You’re a visitor, not an advisor.

Get deep enough into a conversation, and you’ll often hear locals openly criticizing or trash-talking their own government. While you may feel it’s OK to join the fray, know that your opinion will forever be that of the “outsider”–and it’s very much not OK for outsiders to criticize (“if you don’t like it here, the door is that way”).

I keep it simple–I don’t bring it up until prompted. And if they do ask me, well, they better be prepared to hear my unvarnished opinion!

USA passport on wooden table
Stolen passports can fetch more than $10,000 on the black market. Protect yours!

#10. Protect your passport

Your passport isn’t just a way to keep track of all the places you’ve been. It’s your way in and out of the country–and you must do everything you can to keep it safe and undamaged.

When traveling, I keep my passport in a protective case–and take it out only when absolutely necessary (e.g. at the border). It rarely leaves the hotel room. If I need ID to get into a bar or club, I take my driver’s license. I also try not to bend the passport too much–the last thing I need is for the bio data page strip to be unreadable.

In countries where everyone is required to carry their passport around, I suggest only carrying around a photocopy of the photo page. This way, local police cannot use it as leverage in any way (otherwise, they could just confiscate it based on made-up charges and require you to go on a long adventure to the station and possibly pay a “fine”).

Pro tip: all travelers should travel with a copy of their passport photo page. I bring multiple, as they come in handy at random times (like when applying for a tourist visa abroad). I also keep a scanned copy of this page in a Dropbox folder, ready to be printed out in case I lose my passport and have to apply for a replacement at the local embassy (the whole process usually goes much faster if you can supply them with a photocopy of the original).

#11. Start a journal

Journals (or diaries) aren’t just for teenage girls.

Many travelers and explorers through the ages kept a journal, and I recommend it for anyone on a long adventure. Even if you have a great memory, there will be funny or interesting moments that you’ll eventually forget. If you have a journal, you’ll be able to relive all the good times long after the trip.

A journal doesn’t have to be lengthy, or even comprehensive. Consistency is perhaps the most important thing–a few sentences every 1-2 days is all you need to capture the most important things.

If you don’t want to carry around a notebook and pen everywhere, there are plenty of electronic alternatives. Even an Instagram account could technically suffice–upload a photo a day, and add a few sentences. You’ll be surprised at how quickly the entries accumulate.

Journal on cafe table
Writing down your daily thoughts and experiences can be therapeutic

#12. Call your mother

She misses you, and wants to know where you are. You’re a long way from home, and she’s probably not on Instagram. Call her once in a while!

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Well, that’s it for now! I’ll try to keep this list updated if/when I think of more. As always, please feel free to leave a comment.

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